Losing a job or not finding a job after graduation is indeed very depressing. Though the later can be managed, it is really tough to accept the fact that the job is no longer yours. A sudden break to the regular monthly income can actually disrupt the life in a very bad way. But, nothing is permanent in life. So, this phase has to end one fine day. If one has this trust and confidence in himself, he can surely deal with this temporary phase of unemployment. Here is an article that will tell you how to deal with unemployment.
Things do happen and they will continue to happen unexpectedly. Do not get extremely disheartened and thereby land into depression. Believe in yourself and stay calm. Do not panic. Convince yourself that this is a temporary phase which is going to get over soon and thus there is no need to worry so much. Relax and sleep well. Once, you are stable, you'll be able to think about many other alternatives that are still open for you. Hit the gym if you want. Stay healthy and fit so that you remain the same mentally as well.
Analyze Your Situation
Once your mind is calm, try to analyze what went wrong. What was the cause of unemployment? Were you really capable of doing that job? Did you ever like it? Were you financially satisfied? Was it full of compromises? Were you denied justice? Try to find answers to these questions. If you feel that the job was not of your choice and you were doing it only for the sake of money, be happy! You are no longer bound to work there now. Soon, you'll be finding a new job which will be of your interest and will make you feel good. If you have just finished your graduation and not finding a job, don't be sad. You'll make it. Instead, waiting for the right kind of job will satisfy you more.
Look Out for Alternatives
Acceptance is the key to success! The sooner you accept the reality, the faster you open up other alternatives. Once you know that the job is no longer yours, do not grumble. Think of other ways to earn money. Keep yourself very active. Call the people who you think can help you out or can provide you with appropriate guidance at least. Update your resume and practice interviewing skills. Look out for vacancies in the newspaper and on the Internet daily and give as many interviews as you can. On the other hand, if you feel that you are not really a 'job person', think of a business you can start. Knowing what kind of loans an unemployed person can apply for can be helpful in this situation. For example, a teacher in a school or a college can start his/her own tuition classes and can be happier than before. That will keep him professionally and financially more satisfied. Also, try freelancing to earn at your convenience.
Make Your Hobby, Your Profession
If you love writing, think of making it your carrier. Any hobby that you have pursued till date can become your profession. After all, loving what you do will make you even more satisfied with your decision. For that, meet experts from that field and get to know more about it as you have taken it as a hobby till now and now it is going to be your future profession. Also, find out if it will satisfy you financially as well because even that is an important factor you should know.
Improve Your Skills
After you have analyzed and thought about the alternatives, try to improve on your weak areas. Understand and accept the fact that you have certain negative traits that need to be improved. Self improvement activities work wonders and they can motivate you to perform even better henceforth. Utilize this 'free' time to work upon your weaknesses. If you feel you lack somewhere when it comes to communication, attend some lectures or seminars on the subject. If you need some technical training in your field, go ahead and complete a course that will improve your technical skills. Also, socialize with people. Do not let your ego hamper your social life. Accept the fact that you are going through a stage which is pretty common in the country and someday or the other, everyone goes through it.
Deal With Your Finances
If you know that you are going to need some time to find a new job, make sure you have introspected your finances. Dealing with long term unemployment is never easy. Look out for all your incomes and expenditures and then decide where and how much to spend. Spending your money the way you did before will land you in deep trouble later. Hence, try and sort things out at an early stage so that you don't have to regret later. Also, look out for unemployment benefits if the previous company is offering so.
Lastly, try to boost your spirits and be happy. If you are the only breadwinner in the family, know the fact that the entire family is dependent upon you. So, act wisely. Also, don't be tensed and disheartened. Things will surely fall into the right place! After all, patience is the key to success!